Thursday, September 6, 2007

Unemployed

Well, my husband is unemployed as of yesterday (by his choice). Long story, but I'm proud of him for having and upholding his code of ethics. Surprising how many people think that's ridiculous though.

I keep remembering being at my stepgrandfather's funeral and how the first thing that every person said about him is that he had integrity. That's the first thing I associate with his memory. I'm learning that his brand of integrity doesn't just come, it has to be earned.

I'm sure things will work out from here, but it's kind of scary... especially with twins on the way! We're just grateful that we still fall under the student umbrella. There's great security here that we're a bit scared to leave.

4 comments:

Carolyn said...

Hope everything works out for the best. I've realized that each of us have our own struggles in life, but they only make us stronger and better people. Ben seems like he'd be an amazing counselor so I am sure he'll find something else soon. Good luck. Oh and by the way, I am so excited for your twins!

Mrs. Snip said...

The Lord will bless you for yours and Ben's integrity. I know it will all work out for you. It sounds like he made the right choice. How are you feeling?

Ben Arkell said...

There are certain people who are just so pure and true that you know things are going to end up great for them no matter the circumstances. Ben is one of those guys. I have no doubt that the effectual doors will be opened and your family will be showered with blessings. Big Ben, you rock. Remember that USC game at Lavell Edwards? I'll never forget it.

Jamie said...

Tough situation to be in. There's something better waiting for you. Ben's such a great guy. We'll keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

I can't believe you are having twins! Was that just the most shocking news to hear? Your kids are so cute. SO CUTE.

Sarah, you made us fajitas when we had Liam, and they were the best fajitas ever. Could you send me the recipe?

Let us know what's next for you guys. Jake says to tell Ben hi